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Paige
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

59 Bakersfield, California, United States

Female / Single / ID: 1335117

Seeking Female 29 - 60 living within 100 kms of Bakersfield, California, United States For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Casual Relationship, Long Term Relationship

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Paige

She's Looking For

Sexuality:

Lesbian
Lesbian

Consider themselves:

Soft Butch / Androgynous / Chapstick
Butch / Diesel Dyke,Soft Butch / Androgynous / Chapstick,Sporty Dyke,Just Me

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Don't drink,Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Occupation:

Artistic / Creative / Performance
Any

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Any

Member Overview

"There's nothing impersonal about reuse of a good piece of literature. As a writer, I shudder to think poetry can only be read once."- Paige Deneen I used to write self-marketing-ads, but now I just tell the truth. Ha!...and my truth is, I was recently diagnosed with Borderline Personality Di...
"There's nothing impersonal about reuse of a good piece of literature. As a writer, I shudder to think poetry can only be read once."- Paige Deneen I used to write self-marketing-ads, but now I just tell the truth. Ha!...and my truth is, I was recently diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. I figured I'd get that out in the open up front, since I know that's probably the last closet I have to exit, before I get back on the freeway. Filthy, nasty...those closets! I doubt if my exterior image would meet your approval but take heart, MY looks will never define you. I get the whole chemistry thing, I do, and it's fair to want to be with someone who excites you when you look at them. It's kinda like going to the fair and winning a prize, except as soon as the whole story about how you won it gets boring, so does the attraction. I know how it feels to be with someone very attractive on the inside and the outside, and chemistry between two people is important, you betcha! Being with super attractive partners always left me feeling afraid of getting dumped, all the time, and I eventually realized those hotties were more insecure than me. WTF! I quit posing a couple years ago and decided I would do without -- I would rather have nothing -- than the wrong something. It was quite painful to accept that it really was me, and not them. So, I look at all the other ads and wonder, a lot. I want to get back to my own search for the ideal mate, but that idealization is what kept me miserable to begin with. Here we are.. at two very opposite ends of extremes, both looking. I have to ask where the balance in all this is. What I am most attracted to is a healthy presentation and I don't believe that can be found online, simply by default. I'm always interested in meeting people and like the Gay Lady author says, interest doesn't mean I want to sleep with you. Get down with your bad self.....or, just get your bad self down. "The only competition I ever had, was myself."- Paige Deneen Keywords: Courage, Elvis, education, retro, laughter, 50's, honor, roller derby, humanitarian, artist, writer, activist, guitars, empathy, free spirit, atheist, organic, healthy, nutrition, balance, acceptance, poodle, dice, Yahtzee, Vegas, rockabilly, vintage, etsy, cruiser, Lindy hop, dance, poetry, progressive, visionary, willing, greaser.
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Seeking

I love you because I can, not because you are this way or that. There isn't a dimple on anyone's face that compares to the ones you don't have. I love you because you can see me, all of me, even the parts I thought were still hidden, and you still love me. I love you because you laughed at me the fi...
I love you because I can, not because you are this way or that. There isn't a dimple on anyone's face that compares to the ones you don't have. I love you because you can see me, all of me, even the parts I thought were still hidden, and you still love me. I love you because you laughed at me the first time you saw my picture, and I love you because you do that thing you do so well, whatever it is, and because my big sister said one day someone was going to come along and hug me so tight all my broken pieces would stick back together. I saved one of those for you too.:)
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More About Me

Paige

She's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Female
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
59
29 - 60
Lives in:
Bakersfield, California, United States
within 100 kms of Bakersfield, California, United States
Sexuality:
Lesbian
Lesbian
Consider themselves:
Soft Butch / Androgynous / Chapstick
Butch / Diesel Dyke,Soft Butch / Androgynous / Chapstick,Sporty Dyke,Just Me
Relocate:
Willing to relocate within my country
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Black
Any
Eye color:
Hazel
Any
Height:
5'6" (168 cm)
Any
Weight:
77 kg (169 lb)
47 kg (103 lb) - 91 kg (200 lb)
Body style:
Few Extra Pounds
Any
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Any
Body art:
Tattoo
Any
Appearance:
Average
Very attractive,Attractive,Average

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Don't drink,Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Single
Single,Divorced,Widowed
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Any
Want (more) children:
No
Any
Have pets:
Dog
Any
Occupation:
Artistic / Creative / Performance
Any
Employment status:
Retired
Any
Income:
Prefer not to say
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
English
English
Religion:
No religion
No religion
Star sign:
Leo
Any

Personal

Out of the closet:
Out to most
Prefer not to say,Out to everyone,Out to most,Out to some,Coming out

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Other, Antiques, Art / Painting, Bars / Pubs / Nightclubs, Beach / Parks, Board / Card Games, Camping / Nature, Cars / Mechanics, Casino / Gambling, Computers / Internet, Comedy Clubs, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Crafts, Dancing, Education, Family, Home Improvement, Music (Listening), Music (Playing), Motorcycles, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, Pets, Philosophy / Spirituality, Poetry, Reading, Science and Technology, Shopping, Social Causes / Activism, Traveling, Volunteering, Writing

Food:

Other, American, French, Barbecue, German, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Soul Food, Italian, Southwestern, Japanese / Sushi, Continental, Vegetarian / Organic, Eastern European, Mexican

Music:

Other, Classical / Opera, New Age, Pop, Reggae, Rock, Soft Rock

Sport:

American Football, Auto Racing, Boxing, Figure Skating, Jet / Water Skiing, Martial Arts, Pool / Billards, Skiing / Snowboarding, Yoga / Pilates

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Realistic comedy, too many

Favorite Book:

'...the one I wrote

Favorite Food:

Organic, clean, nutrient dense foods. Home cooked meals, the real stuff.

Favorite Music:

Mid-century 50's, Elvis, etc., top 40's dance music

Dress Style:

I'm female and I get it. I'm tomboy-queer and flexible with good taste of course. My sister doesn't dress me anymore!

Humor:

Painfully honest

Hobbies & Interests:

Art, Sewing, writing, wrenching, cooking....just see my keywords.

Travelled:

I would like to tour Europe and visit Greece and Italy. It's okay, really, I have gone all the way around my block.

Cultural Adaption:

Don't know, haven't tried it yet.

Romance:

If I had ever had one, I wouldn't be here, now would I? Yikes!...I'll tell you when it happens.

Personality:

A breath of fresh air. Oh wait, that's Fabreeze. I love you , let's save the world! Oh look, someone else needs help.

My Perfect Match is:

That's a difficult answer. I insist on an open mind, able to both learn and teach. Ha!...Pretty feet and helping hands, hows that? Lots of courage and certainly, love-able.

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