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Hi.. I'm Lise and I'm tired of Covid-19!

Lise
Standard Member
Last active: 12 hours ago

51 Halesowen, West Midlands, United Kingdom

Female / Divorced / ID: 1451170

Seeking Female 40 - 56 living within 500 kms of Halesowen, West Midlands, United Kingdom For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship

Last active: 12 hours ago

Overview

Lise

She's Looking For

Sexuality:

Lesbian
Lesbian

Consider themselves:

Soft Butch / Androgynous / Chapstick
Any

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
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Occupation:

Self Employed
Any

Have children:

No
Any

Member Overview

(People trying to message me, I can't see them, please try shooting me an email instead - read below for details) What can we say about ourselves these days? 'I used to like going out and meeting new people'. 'Used to love travelling!' 'Used to like getting my hair cut every 3 weeks' 'I ...
(People trying to message me, I can't see them, please try shooting me an email instead - read below for details) What can we say about ourselves these days? 'I used to like going out and meeting new people'. 'Used to love travelling!' 'Used to like getting my hair cut every 3 weeks' 'I used to like hanging out in bookshops and chatting over a coffee'. 'Used to love seeing live bands!' 'Used to love going to the movies!' Now we're all lucky if we can get through to the weekend without living off cereal for 5 days straight, making sure we've got out of our Pj's before we cross the road (mask appropriately placed!) for a bottle of milk, and resist day drinking. Sigh. Damn this sodding virus! Right.. I'd love to meet new friends, and take things from there, slowly. I only have a basic account at the moment, so try emailing me at Purplelotus1969 at Gmail dot com (see what I did there, that's because I'm cheeky!) ;) I've lived in Canada and the USA for the past 13 or so years, but am now in the process of repatriating to the UK, permanently. There really is no place like home! On saying that, I would travel, for the right woman, and I have very few ties in England now, so I'm prepared to travel out of my own little bubble and venture into other parts of Blighty for lurvvve. I've travelled to some awesome places and had some wonderful and sometimes scary adventures, and I do look forward to travelling more in the future (Covid-19 permitting!) I love all animals, but I'm a dog person at heart. Since a child I've had rescue Lurchers and Greyhounds, but at the moment I'm pet free, apart from all the wild things - I have a family of foxes living under the greenhouse who I am very passionate about! I love spending time in the garden, or out in nature, having a walk, taking photos, and it would be so lovely to have a hand to hold whilst I'm doing so. I can be a little shy and quiet at first, but it's usually just while I 'find my feet'. I'm quite introverted, and love spending time by myself, but do miss having someone to chat about the day, the world, the universe with. I don't need to be constantly entertained, and I'm not at all demanding of people's time. I don't need to be surrounded by a crowd all the time (good job really these days!), and prefer one on one time, rather than being in a group. But that's not to say I won't enjoy hanging out with you and your family and friends, I absolutely will! I'm proud to be 'out', so I wouldn't like to be someone's little secret. My family are all very accepting and very inclusive, so you'll inherit them if you decide to give me a chance! It's OK, they're quite safe, and none of them bite ;) My dad passed away quite recently, and he was really eager to see me meet someone and finally find happiness, so I'm putting myself out there again as a promise to him to get on with my life, and do something for myself. I have bilateral menieres disease, I don't let it stop me from doing things I enjoy, but it does mean I like to be as stress free now as possible, as stress is a huge trigger for attacks. I also suffer from ptsd, but I've worked on it damned hard for the past 2 years, and I also refuse to allow it to control me! I'm kind, sympathetic, understanding, attentive without being clingy ('clingy' is something that makes me cringe), I'm more introverted than extroverted, you'll never see me flirting with your friends or anyone else for that matter, and I'm definitely not looking for a polyamorous relationship! Noooo thank you!
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Seeking

Someone sane, you can be completely hat-stand bonkers, just please be sane! Someone 'nice' would be blissful! I do prefer more feminine women, and although I may look 'butch', that's not how I act or identify. I'm probably more 'gender neutral' in appearance and in the way I act. I do pride m...
Someone sane, you can be completely hat-stand bonkers, just please be sane! Someone 'nice' would be blissful! I do prefer more feminine women, and although I may look 'butch', that's not how I act or identify. I'm probably more 'gender neutral' in appearance and in the way I act. I do pride myself on being courteous, respectful and polite too. So I'm looking for someone who finds those traits attractive, and who has a fabulous sense of humour. Someone who loves the ocean, beach walks, fireside chats over a glass of wine or a G&T, cuddling on cold winter nights, star gazing, wildlife, leafy walks in Autumn, and romance in general! I don't know anyone in their 40s and 50s who doesn't have a little baggage, so please don't worry if you do. It's important to support each other with that kind of stuff, rather than judge quickly and close the door. I'm an open book about my past relationships, and although I have some scarring from them, they've also taught me a huge amount. I do also try to find the positives in any negative, even though it might take me a while sometimes, and I will do my best to try to help you do that too. Someone who can talk openly but also listen well is an absolute must! So don't worry if you have a 'past', it's what makes you you!
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More About Me

Lise

She's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Female
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
51
40 - 56
Lives in:
Halesowen, West Midlands, United Kingdom
within 500 kms of Halesowen, West Midlands, United Kingdom
Sexuality:
Lesbian
Lesbian
Consider themselves:
Soft Butch / Androgynous / Chapstick
Any
Relocate:
Willing to relocate within my country
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Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
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Eye color:
Blue
Any
Height:
5'4" (163 cm)
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Weight:
70 kg (154 lb)
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Body style:
Few Extra Pounds
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Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
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Best feature:
My Personality
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Body art:
Tattoo
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Appearance:
Average
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Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
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Smoke:
Don't smoke
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Marital Status:
Divorced
Any
Have children:
No
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
No Pets
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Occupation:
Self Employed
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Employment status:
Other
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Income:
Prefer not to say
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Living situation:
Prefer not to say
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Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United Kingdom
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Education:
Vocational College
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Languages spoken:
English
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Religion:
No religion
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Star sign:
Aquarius
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Personal

Out of the closet:
Out to everyone
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Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Other, Antiques, Art / Painting, Beach / Parks, Camping / Nature, Cars / Mechanics, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dining Out, Dinner Parties, Music (Listening), Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, Pets, Philosophy / Spirituality, Photography, Reading, Theatre, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, TV: Entertainment

Food:

Other, American, French, Middle Eastern, Barbecue, German, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Soul Food, California-Fusion, Indian, South American, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Southwestern, Chinese / Dim Sum, Continental, Jewish / Kosher, Thai, Deli, Korean, Eastern European, Mediterranean, Fast Food / Pizza, Mexican, Vietnamese

Music:

Other, Alternative, Classical / Opera, Dance / Techno, Jazz / Blues, Metal, Pop, Reggae, Rock, Soft Rock, World

Sport:

Biking, Boating / Sailing, Bowling, Canoe / Kayak, Cycling, Hiking, Horse Riding, Hunting / Shooting, Ice Skating / Ice Hockey, Pool / Billards, Skiing / Snowboarding, Snowmobiling, Soccer, Swimming, Walking

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Oooh I have loads..

Favorite Book:

Again, I have loads!

Favorite Food:

I like alllllll the food! All of it. I'm not keen on tomatoes though.. And I'm allergic to shellfish, but I'm fine with you eating it. During 'lockdown', I piled some weight on that I MUST lose! :/

Favorite Music:

Again, far too much to mention. But I'm a huge fan of the 80s alternative scene, as that was my 'thing'. I've seen many bands and artists, and like most music with a few little exceptions.

Dress Style:

Smart casual, I HAVE to shower and fix my hair every day otherwise I just don't feel 'right'. I like to smell nice, and only wear mens colognes.

Humor:

Silly, sometimes very dry, can be sarcastic but in a nice way - never in a biting, nasty way.

Hobbies & Interests:

Wildlife, photography and editing, reading, being silly, getting out and about, seeing places, travel, history, culture, the arts...

Travelled:

Lived in BC, Canada, and the USA, travelled in and around Peru, Malaysia - Singapore, Borneo, Africa, and other places but want to see more of the world, as and when I can. I'm also just as happy exploring the UK though, there's so much that I never got to see before I emigrated, and now I'm back home I'm eager to visit pretty much all of the UK!

Cultural Adaption:

Already 'been there, done that', so I'm fine with it!

Romance:

Perfect romantic weekend? In a place overlooking the sea, walks along the beach, evenings by the fire, chatting, getting to know each other, feeling relaxed in one another's company, and feeling intoxicated by someone's personality.

Personality:

Loyal, protective, calm, introverted, I've had people tell me I'm 'soothing', but like most people I can be a bit of a bugger too at times!

My Perfect Match is:

Someone kind, gentle, sympathetic, empathetic, positive. You don't have to be rich or live in a huge house, or have a fancy car. You just need to be genuine. Someone who will take time getting to know me, and who will allow me time to get to know them. The whole whirlwind romance and rushing things really doesn't work. I'm very happy to text/email, do phone calls and video calls, progress to meeting up and seeing how things go. I'd love someone 'light' and refreshing, I'm really done with oppressive people and control freaks. Ultimately looking for a soul mate to grow old and grey(er) with, a best friend, someone who will help me gain confidence and help me find myself again after being beaten down quite badly. Absolutely no cheaters, and definitely no Poly relationships.

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