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Monica
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Last active: over 12 months ago

59 Aberdeen, South Dakota, United States

Female / Single / ID: 179101

Seeking Female 28 - 50 living within 500 kms of Aberdeen, South Dakota, United States For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Casual Relationship, Long Term Relationship

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Monica

She's Looking For

Sexuality:

Lesbian
Lesbian

Consider themselves:

Soft Butch / Androgynous / Chapstick
Lipstick Lesbian / Femme,Sporty Dyke,Just Me

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Occupation:

Laborer / Manufacturing
Any

Have children:

No
Any

Member Overview

id rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints! Fun, easygoing, honest, I try to do the casual thing but I tend to fall if we click..so I am sensitive, emotional, but strong and independent..i don't leave when the going gets tough or a crisis comes up if you are my woman. I will help you ...
id rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints! Fun, easygoing, honest, I try to do the casual thing but I tend to fall if we click..so I am sensitive, emotional, but strong and independent..i don't leave when the going gets tough or a crisis comes up if you are my woman. I will help you through it..iam supportive and optimistic..tend to fly by the seat of my pants in relationships, meaning I give all, but if it ends I always pick myself back up and try again. I don't give up easily..but I am not a competitive personality..i can get along with anyone as long as they are respectful of me. I won't tolerate being walked on..last gf pushed that to the limit..love working out and dancing. Not above dancing by myself if I like the song..and I don't care what anyone thinks, so I am fine with public displays of affection..i love Gay Pride weekend!!!! Biggest turn-on for me is kissing....my sense of humor is constant so I hope ur cool with that..if u contact me and I'm interested, I will insist on Skyping..if you can't or won't, we can text possibly but I would say there's no chance of knowing me better without me seeing that u are real and vice versa..i'll be friends with bisexual women, but I'm not the type of lesbian that wants notches in her bedpost just to say I banged another woman. so I don't have sexual relationships with bi women. friends are fine tho. i'm only attracted to feminine/lipstick lesbians mostly. I was looking for long-term but it seems most women on here only wanna play, so i'll go with the flow:)I am a pleaser...
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Seeking

mutual respect and honesty is what I am looking for..i need to be attracted to u tho or friendship is all the further it will go. & a sense of humor is a must. u have to b able to laugh @ yourself & life! noone too serious.. i love to have fun doin wutever; very open-minded. i wud love to ...
mutual respect and honesty is what I am looking for..i need to be attracted to u tho or friendship is all the further it will go. & a sense of humor is a must. u have to b able to laugh @ yourself & life! noone too serious.. i love to have fun doin wutever; very open-minded. i wud love to @ least make new friends. turn-on....i love kissing long & slow..that drives me wild. i think kissing can b the most sensual act with the right woman- i wud love to hear from you- for any reason i may have mentioned -something that appealed to you...i am ready for a partner ship with a not-too-high-maintenance femme/lipstick/grrly grrl lesbian who wants a protector and an attentive lover....i am all about pleasing my woman..and i am ready for marriage. Longterm is my goal but friends r fine too
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More About Me

Monica

She's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Female
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
59
28 - 50
Lives in:
Aberdeen, South Dakota, United States
within 500 kms of Aberdeen, South Dakota, United States
Sexuality:
Lesbian
Lesbian
Consider themselves:
Soft Butch / Androgynous / Chapstick
Lipstick Lesbian / Femme,Sporty Dyke,Just Me
Relocate:
Willing to relocate within my country
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Changes frequently
Light Brown,Brown,Black,Red,Blonde,Changes frequently
Eye color:
Blue
Any
Height:
5'2" (158 cm)
Any
Weight:
60 kg (132 lb)
Any
Body style:
Athletic
Petite,Slim,Average,Athletic,Few Extra Pounds
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Any
Body art:
Tattoo
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Very attractive,Attractive,Average

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Single
Single,Separated,Divorced,Widowed
Have children:
No
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
Dog
Any
Occupation:
Laborer / Manufacturing
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Full Time,Part Time,Retired
Income:
$30,001 - $60,000 USD
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
Vocational College
Any
Languages spoken:
English
English
Religion:
Other
Any
Star sign:
Libra
Any

Personal

Out of the closet:
Out to everyone
Out to everyone,Out to most,Out to some,Coming out

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Bars / Pubs / Nightclubs, Beach / Parks, Board / Card Games, Camping / Nature, Computers / Internet, Comedy Clubs, Concerts / Live Music, Dancing, Dining Out, Family, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Karaoke / Sing-along, Library, Music (Listening), Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, Pets, Reading, Shopping

Food:

Barbecue, Cajun / Southern, Greek, California-Fusion, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Southwestern, Chinese / Dim Sum, Thai, Vegetarian / Organic, Vegan, Mexican, Vietnamese

Music:

Other, Alternative, Dance / Techno, Metal, Pop, Rap, Reggae, R'n'B / Hip Hop, Rock, Soft Rock

Sport:

Baseball / Softball, Biking, Canoe / Kayak, Fishing, Gym / Weight Training, Hiking, Jogging / Running, Swimming, Walking, Yoga / Pilates

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

love "Bound"-also lord of the rings-harry potter & the twilight series...any of the she likes girls dvds..i watch them over n over..

Favorite Book:

for advice? "is it a date or just coffee" by mo brownsey..the gay girls guide to dating, s*x & romance..its really funny-& so true! Favorite book though? I would have to say one that really gave me the hope when i was young and coming out..Rubyfruit Jungle by Rita Mae Brown.

Favorite Food:

love mexican, grilling out, ..ill try different things, but i dont really trust sushi or any fish that tastes fishy!

Favorite Music:

i love tegan & sara, ani difranco, etc-into metal 2-smile empty soul, killswitch engage, mudvayne, linkin park, .-classic rock, techno, dance, Lady Gaga, Nine Inch Nails, new age for background music while i wanna relax....i like music on while making love.....ill give anything a try.except i cant stand patriotic music & really twangy country..love the old classic Eagles. i don' tmind the newer country music..

Dress Style:

casual- jeans t-shirts, leather bracelets, hemp necklaces..shorts & tanks..harley boots..button-up shirts..hooded sweatshirts..i really think i could pull off dressing up if the right woman helped me.....i do own some khakis...

Humor:

my humor is off-the-wall. quirky, sumtimes rude-in the right company..joke about myself alot..anything {almost} to get a laugh out of sum1..bluntly? i do stupid shit for a laugh...not "jackass" type stuff though...yet..haha

Hobbies & Interests:

well, i try to do home improvements myself..then i call sum1 to fix them! i read, listen to music, love exercise-lift weights bikeride, walk my 4 dogs often..try gardening..the weeds r quite beautiful after ive pampered them thinkin its a perennial i planted! love the outdoors..ill try anything if sum1 wants to do it..altho i admit..rollerblading prolly not a good idea..but hey i will try it-again. I have health and life insurance so i am covered haha

Travelled:

have only been to mazatlan mexico..& saskatchewan, Ca when i was 16..otherwise have jus traveled in US. id love to go to Australia & canada again sumday..or anywhere the right woman for me is located..i really liked Provincetown, Ma-would go there again..new york to meet a woman from Pink..do not ask...

Cultural Adaption:

very adaptive open-minded. willing to learn, share, & accomodate her any way possible to make the transition easier..

Romance:

wow, its been so long!..i would pamper my lover..surprise her with a trip thas not too far of a drive away..maybe a lake cabin so we could have privacy & just enjoy each other, enjoy the water, the sun..wait on her every desire, wish....

Personality:

im a joker & a clown..like to make ppl laugh..i laugh alot myself..how else can i explain all the phone numbers in my phone that i dont recognize? these ppl think i'm f-in hilarious..

My Perfect Match is:

sum1 who isnt controlling! she doesnt go from sweet to cold in the blink of an eye...understanding, compassionate, & doesnt use me..S*x isn't everything..but she enjoys S*x and trying different things..and she is verbal, tells me what she likes and how much she likes it..other wise i will tie her up n get her to do that anyway..lol

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