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Susan
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

53 Worthing, West Sussex, United Kingdom

Female / Divorced / ID: 218503

Seeking Female 30 - 60 living within 50 kms of Worthing, West Sussex, United Kingdom For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Susan

She's Looking For

Sexuality:

Lesbian
Lesbian

Consider themselves:

Lipstick Lesbian / Femme
Any

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Occasionally smoke

Occupation:

IT / Communications
Any

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Any

Member Overview

Hi All, I am a Post Op Trans Woman having undergone Full SRS Surgery on the 5th June 2013 It would take forever to tell you all that there is to know about me... but will be very happy to answer any questions you may have should you care to contact me... To Begin with though I'm just looking ...
Hi All, I am a Post Op Trans Woman having undergone Full SRS Surgery on the 5th June 2013 It would take forever to tell you all that there is to know about me... but will be very happy to answer any questions you may have should you care to contact me... To Begin with though I'm just looking to make new friends and take things from there... Love and Stuff Susie x Lots of you have been asking so here is my story.............. Up-Date 24th Sept 2009 Seen My GP Told Her of my Feelings of Dissonance Toward My Birth Gender and Requested that I be Referred to My Local WAMHT for Psychiatric Assessment Up-Date 29th Oct 2009 Seen Psychiatrist, Diagnosed with Gender Dysphoria F64-ICD 10, Referred On to CX GIC Up - Date 23rd Dec 2009 My Referral to GIC Charing Cross has Come through with Funding Approved by the PCT Best Chrissie Present Ever Yippeeeeee. Up - Date 26th June 2010 I Finally have My Date.....Its the 6th January 2011......I'm so happy I'm crying......wish my Mum was still here Up-Date 4th July 2010 Name Changed by Deed Poll To-Day I Am Now Officially, Legally, Indisputably Me...................... Up - Date 5th Aug 2010 Received letter from Charing Cross to-day and have had my Appointment Date Brought Forward to Friday 24th Sept 2010...Reducing Waiting Time by More than 3 Months.........words cant express how good I feel and its B-Pride this Saturday...Fun Hic ! Fun.......might even get lucky this weekend,...lol Up-Date 12 Sept 2010 12 Days to go and counting till CX GIC Greyhound Rd, I've got my train tickets and all my documents are in order................ Hello, Hi and Hello, Thank You for taking the time to read my Profile, So about me well, I have been Struggling with My Birth Gender and Phenotype for as long back as I can remember, In fact by the tender age of 5/6 I knew I was VERY different from the other boys in my peer group, and would much prefer the company of Girls, And Anyways Boys Played Too Rough and Were Smelly. My Bedtime Prayer as a child was that I would wake up to find, I was just like the other Girls. My Mum found out when I was 7 maybe 8 years old, as on more than one occasion she would find me rummaging her underwear drawer and wearing her dresses and heels, I tried to explain that I felt more comfortable and natural dressed like this but she flew into a rage and threatened to tell my father should I do it again, then she started to cry. It was not the threat of Father that stopped me at that point but the fact, I had made Mum cry. I felt Sick in the pit of my stomach that I had hurt my mum and made her unhappy. A few days later I overheard mum talking with my aunt about it where mum said ‘ Oh I blame myself for all this as you know how much I wanted a girl this time, I was so sure that I was carrying a girl we were going to call her 'Susan Caroline’. Then she started to cry again, I just felt confused, scared and unwanted. (mum past away 5 years ago so I have adopted the name Susan Caroline in her memory). So then started the years of depression guilt and revulsion that I was trapped in a body I hated and did not want, and in 1970s Glasgow there would be no help from anywhere, best to keep quiet and get on with the gender role I have been forced to live with rather than face rejection and humiliation. The years passed and I learned how to hide what was inside and to act like a ‘real man’ ‘whatever that is!’ and try to be one of the boys, but always, always, wishing that I could wake up from this nightmare and just be me. I grew up got a good job, got married had kids, got divorced, all the while acting a part that did not come naturally to me, It was as though I were watching a movie of someone else’s life, It didn’t feel real and I so wanted to be the real me in the real world, So after some 20 Years I am now in the Process of Transitioning, having been diagnosed with Gender Dysphoria F64-ICD 10, and just cant wait till I undergo my SRS which should be in Jan / Feb 2012, When I will Finally Be Free From My Bothersome Boy Bits. I started my RLT on the 1st March 2009, and Very Happy, that I am now finally living my life as I should have done from the start. Of Course I will never be Free from the Guilt I feel for the hurt and Pain my condition has given to my family and loved ones, especially my poor Ex Wife and Children they never deserved this Hell , Nor did I deserve the crewel specter that played this horrid, discussing joke, on me at birth. I still miss my family and children terribly, but to continue to live a lie and Fight against my true Gender became untenable, by severely affecting my mental state and feelings of well being in general. WOW !! That Was Heavy Stuff. Anyway On A Lighter Note: I Have Big Hazel eyes brown hair, I’m 5' 8 slim and petite 36D bra and have long Legs ( and this is embarrassing me *Blush*) My Friends tell me that I’m always well Presented Look Lovely and Pass well in public ( they must need their eyes tested bless them lol ) I love to get out and about, shopping, Pubs, Clubs, Eating Out, Movies and Theatre ,mostly in Brighton I Have been known to be Mischievous and Naughty under the right circumstance and with the right person. I am kind caring and loving and looking for like minded souls to share my life I hold a 2:2 BSc ISD Telecoms Degree so I’m reasonably Intelligent (That's code for a mad person ). My Interests Include, but are not exclusive of: Flying Model Airplanes and the Real Thing (I have 14 hrs PPL), Astronomy, Maths, (the Mandelbrot theorem of Fractals and Complex Systems and the Belosoff Reaction are my favourite tease), Astro Physics, Micro Processor Systems, Music (I’m a bass player & can sing). Golf (12 off the tee) I am a member of the Sussex Partnership NHS Foundation Trust and undertake Voluntary Work Representing the Best Interests of the Transgendered Community to the Board of Directors and the Primary care Trust Panel. Last but not least it is my intent to Live Life to the Full before I Die
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Seeking

Honesty ,Love, Companionship........that lovely comfortable feeling you get when you can just be yourself.........Oh and loads of other stuff...xxx
Honesty ,Love, Companionship........that lovely comfortable feeling you get when you can just be yourself.........Oh and loads of other stuff...xxx

More About Me

Susan

She's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Female
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
53
30 - 60
Lives in:
Worthing, West Sussex, United Kingdom
within 50 kms of Worthing, West Sussex, United Kingdom
Sexuality:
Lesbian
Lesbian
Consider themselves:
Lipstick Lesbian / Femme
Any
Relocate:
Willing to relocate within my country
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
Any
Hair length:
Medium
Any
Hair type:
Curly
Any
Eye color:
Hazel
Any
Eye wear:
None
Any
Height:
5'6" (168 cm)
Any
Weight:
57 kg (125 lb)
Any
Body style:
Slim
Any
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Any
Best feature:
My Eyes
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Occasionally smoke
Marital Status:
Divorced
Single
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Any
Want (more) children:
No
No
Have pets:
Cat
Any
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Income:
£20,001 - £40,000 GBP
Any
Home type:
Apartment / Flat
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United Kingdom
Any
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
German
Any
Political view:
Prefer not to say
Any
Religion:
Christian
Any
Star sign:
Libra
Any

Personal

Bust cup size:
D
Any
Bust:
36" (92 cm)
Any
Waist:
28" (72 cm)
Any
Hips:
36" (92 cm)
Any
Out of the closet:
Out to everyone
Any

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