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Philosopher in the North

Beccy
Platinum Member
Last active: 1 month ago

38 Altrincham, Manchester, United Kingdom

Female / Single / ID: 2374802

Seeking Female 26 - 48 living within 500 kms of Altrincham, Manchester, United Kingdom For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

Last active: 1 month ago

Overview

Beccy

She's Looking For

Sexuality:

Lesbian
Lesbian

Consider themselves:

Just Me
Lipstick Lesbian / Femme, Soft Butch / Androgynous / Chapstick, Just Me

Drink:

Do drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke, Occasionally smoke

Occupation:

Education / Academic
Any

Have children:

No
Any

Member Overview

I really am a Philosopher. And in the North. But I’m not sure I quite deserve the crown of Philosopher Queen ;) I live on one side of The Pennines and work (at a University) on the other. I’ve been single for yonks and I thought it might be time to settle down with a nice girlfriend. Or just go o...
I really am a Philosopher. And in the North. But I’m not sure I quite deserve the crown of Philosopher Queen ;) I live on one side of The Pennines and work (at a University) on the other. I’ve been single for yonks and I thought it might be time to settle down with a nice girlfriend. Or just go on dates and see what happens.... I have, for the first time, starting thinking that I might like to properly settle down, if I had a girlfriend who wanted to give birth to one of those baby things at some point in the future... but it’s a totally open question on that front, committed neither way. I’m really very young at heart and I tend to fit well with girls that are younger than me. This does not mean I still go out clubbing every weekend! ;) But I also get on well with women a bit older than me (most of my friends are a bit older than me) so I guess it’s an open question on that front too! I have absolutely no interest in anything ‘casual’, relationship-wise. I very much appreciate an eye for beauty and a cosy and comforting living environment. I love old buildings with character: I could never live in a new-build property. I know what I love but I am not myself creative, thus I thouroughly appreciate a partner who devises satisfaction and pride in creating a beautiful living environment. I don’t tick the boxes for many of the lesbian tropes...although I do have a cat (natch!), but I hate gigs, girls with guitars, and all the sort of music I’m supposed to like as a lesbian. I’d rather go to the theatre. I love going to the theatre, favouring classic stuff e.g. Shakespeare and Wagner. I *really* like just talking and getting to know someone. My ideal date would be whatever provided the best opportunity for talking lots and lots. Love the outdoors, reading, arts and culture stuff. Hate Facebook, social media in general, most of what can these days be found on TV (so hurrah for Netflix!) The more I advance in my career the less I feel I fit into mainstream society because it seems so moronic. Academia is very much male-dominated and we’re in a bit of a bubble. I don’t know if that means I’m best off with another academic who gets it, or someone in their 20s who can show me how to be carefree again.
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Seeking

I like intelligent women who like thinking and talking about ideas. I fall in love with minds. I also love physical affection. And the usual things people write on here, such as trust and honesty, but my goodness, I mean it. I would not lie to my girlfriend: if I found myself lying to someone that w...
I like intelligent women who like thinking and talking about ideas. I fall in love with minds. I also love physical affection. And the usual things people write on here, such as trust and honesty, but my goodness, I mean it. I would not lie to my girlfriend: if I found myself lying to someone that would be a clear sign to me that something was wrong with the relationship. And I’d always put my girlfriend’s happiness before my ‘right’ to go to dinner with my ex, or something like that. I have found that rather than going by rules as to what and what is not okay when it comes to things that make people insecure, instincts should, and can, be trusted. Saying that, I do need time to myself because I go on meditation retreats and this has been a problem in the past even though I can promise you that the last thing I’m going to do on a meditation retreat is cheat on my girlfriend! But when it comes down to it, I want my girlfriend to feel loved and safe and trusted and cherished, and I am ready, at last, to make finding that girl a priority in my life. We don’t have to share all interests - I think it’s nice to have our own activities, and friends. Just a commitment to each other. I’m fiercely loyal and look for the same in a partner. My dream girlfriend would be a professional cellist and have long dark brown wavy hair! Seriously! I don’t know where that dream’s come from... I’m much more interested in brains than looks. I’m really into physical fitness for myself, but don’t care at all whether my girlfriend is, as long as she’s healthy. I’d actually be put off a by someone who’s too ‘buff’: I like soft little tummies. I love females and I love feminine traits. I’m really sorry, and I know we all have to start somewhere but if you’re bi-curious’ or even ‘bi-sexual’ in that you’re more straight than gay, I’m happy to be friends, but my heart is reserved for a true lesbian heart. That doesn’t mean I’m a gold-star, but it means I know that relationships with women are very different to those with men, and I want to be with someone who has realised the beauty that comes exclusively between women in love, and, whatever their past sexual adventures, thinks of themselves as a wonderful lovely lesbian. However, despite being open to friendships with bi girls, this most definitely excludes people who have boob/bum profile pics, (who are without exception ‘bi’ it seems, which is not surprising as it is is a rather blatant indicator that someone does not understand lesbians at all. Jeeze....) Other than that, please come chat! :-)
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More About Me

Beccy

She's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Female
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
38
26 - 48
Lives in:
Altrincham, Manchester, United Kingdom
within 500 kms of Altrincham, Manchester, United Kingdom
Sexuality:
Lesbian
Lesbian
Consider themselves:
Just Me
Lipstick Lesbian / Femme, Soft Butch / Androgynous / Chapstick, Just Me
Relocate:
Willing to relocate within my country
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Blonde
Any
Hair length:
Short
Any
Hair type:
Straight
Any
Eye color:
Blue
Any
Eye wear:
Contacts
Any
Height:
5'6" (168 cm)
4'11" (150 cm) - 6'0" (183 cm)
Weight:
65 kg (143 lb)
Any
Body style:
Athletic
Petite, Slim, Average, Athletic, Few Extra Pounds
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Any
Best feature:
My Eyes
Any
Body art:
Piercing
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Very attractive, Attractive, Average

Lifestyle

Drink:
Do drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke, Occasionally smoke
Marital Status:
Single
Any
Have children:
No
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
Cat
Any
Occupation:
Education / Academic
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Income:
£20,001 - £40,000 GBP
Any
Home type:
Apartment / Flat
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United Kingdom
Any
Education:
PhD or Doctorate
Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
English
Any
Political view:
Other
Any
Religion:
Buddhist
Any
Star sign:
No Answer
Any

Personal

Bust cup size:
No Answer
Any
Bust:
No Answer
Any
Waist:
No Answer
Any
Hips:
No Answer
Any
Out of the closet:
Out to everyone
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Bars / Pubs / Nightclubs, Ballet, Beach / Parks, Board / Card Games, Camping / Nature, Comedy Clubs, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dancing, Dining Out, Dinner Parties, Education, Library, Music (Listening), Meditation, Pets, Philosophy / Spirituality, Wine Tasting

Food:

Vegan

Music:

Classical / Opera

Sport:

Bodybuilding, Gym / Weight Training, Rugby, Tennis / Badminton, Walking, Yoga / Pilates

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