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Barbara.
Standard Member
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Last active: 3 months ago

72 Lancaster, California, United States

Female / Single / ID: 2459998

Seeking Female 55 - 65 living within 500 kms of Lancaster, California, United States For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

Last active: 3 months ago

Overview

Barbara.

She's Looking For

Sexuality:

Lesbian
Lesbian

Consider themselves:

Soft Butch / Androgynous / Chapstick
Lipstick Lesbian / Femme, Just Me

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Occupation:

Retired
Retired

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
No

Member Overview

I'm strictly a lesbian and only MELANATED fems who are strictly lesbian need apply. I love MELANATED women only. I seek LOYALTY TRUTHFULNESS COMMITMENT DEDICATION AND RESPECT. I'm not impressed with riches or material things. All that I ask of one woman is for her to simply give me herself comple...
I'm strictly a lesbian and only MELANATED fems who are strictly lesbian need apply. I love MELANATED women only. I seek LOYALTY TRUTHFULNESS COMMITMENT DEDICATION AND RESPECT. I'm not impressed with riches or material things. All that I ask of one woman is for her to simply give me herself completely. I refuse to accept anything less than what I ask. All others need not apply. No drama or games here. I'm as real as it gets. I'm seeking a wife.and I'm read to her my all as long as I know she is my biggest fan. My actual B/ day is 12/02/1947 it's listed incorrectly and I am unable to correct. Don't let my age fool you. I work out 5 days a week. I consider myself better fit than most. So I'm very much vibrantly alive where it counts.
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Seeking

I'm a serious vintage romantic who is seeking a MELANATED Honest RESPECT Compatible and committed Fem. No games no drama possible marriage. My wife and my home are my first priority. How can you compliment me? What are you bringing to the table? Only older MELANATED serious fems who are grown...
I'm a serious vintage romantic who is seeking a MELANATED Honest RESPECT Compatible and committed Fem. No games no drama possible marriage. My wife and my home are my first priority. How can you compliment me? What are you bringing to the table? Only older MELANATED serious fems who are grown ass women who know what they want need apply. The very quality I truly seek is LOYALTY. I give it I expect it in return. A fem who will be as much into me as I will cherish her. I need for her to enable me to smile again. I will confirm in her heart of hearts just how much how deeply I care for only her. I'm looking at possibly marriage to spend the rest of my days loving and cherishing only her. .Words are the cheapest thing on the planet. They cost nothing! I'm a woman of action seeking the same. My cards are on the table turned up for you to see everything. If you're serious let's become better acquainted.
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More About Me

Barbara.

She's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Verified
Female
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
Verified
72
55 - 65
Lives in:
Verified
Lancaster, California, United States
within 500 kms of Lancaster, California, United States
Sexuality:
Lesbian
Lesbian
Consider themselves:
Soft Butch / Androgynous / Chapstick
Lipstick Lesbian / Femme, Just Me
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Willing to relocate within my country

Appearance

Hair color:
Black
Light Brown, Brown, Black
Hair length:
Short
Long, Medium
Hair type:
Curly
Other, Curly
Eye color:
Brown
Brown, Green
Eye wear:
Glasses
Any
Height:
5'6" (168 cm)
5'5" (166 cm) - 5'7" (171 cm)
Weight:
77 kg (169 lb)
68 kg (150 lb) - 77 kg (169 lb)
Body style:
Few Extra Pounds
Average, Few Extra Pounds, Full Figured
Ethnicity:
Black
Black, Asian, Pacific Islander, Mixed
Best feature:
If You're lucky I'll show you later
Prefer not to say, If You're lucky I'll show you later
Body art:
Tattoo
None
Appearance:
Average
Attractive

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Single
Single
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
No
Want (more) children:
No
No
Have pets:
No Pets
No Pets
Occupation:
Retired
Retired
Employment status:
Retired
Retired
Income:
Prefer not to say
Any
Home type:
Apartment / Flat
House, Apartment / Flat, Town house, Condominium
Living situation:
Live Alone
Live Alone

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
United States
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
English
English
Political view:
Not interested
Not interested
Religion:
No religion
No religion
Star sign:
Sagittarius
Aries, Gemini, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius

Personal

Bust cup size:
B
B
Bust:
No Answer
36" (92 cm) - 40" (102 cm)
Waist:
No Answer
30" (77 cm) - 36" (92 cm)
Hips:
No Answer
40" (102 cm) - 44" (112 cm)
Out of the closet:
Out to everyone
Out to everyone

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Astrology, Ballet, Camping / Nature, Computers / Internet, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Library, Music (Listening), Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, News / Politics, Philosophy / Spirituality, Poetry, Reading, Science and Technology, Social Causes / Activism, Theatre, Traveling, TV: Entertainment, Wine Tasting, Writing

Food:

French, Middle Eastern, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Soul Food, California-Fusion, Indian, South American, Caribbean/Cuban, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Thai, Deli, Korean, Mediterranean, Mexican, Vietnamese

Music:

Other, Classical / Opera, Jazz / Blues, New Age, Reggae, R'n'B / Hip Hop, World

Sport:

Other, Archery, Boating / Sailing, Bodybuilding, Cycling, Fishing, Gym / Weight Training, Horse Riding

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

The Black Panther

Favorite Book:

Haven't read anything lately but whenever I do I enjoy History or documentaries. I especially like Black History US History World History and African History European History.

Favorite Food:

Creole, Gourmet, some soul, Japanese, Korean, Mandarin, and I love the experience of new authentic aromas, new taste of other countries and cultures. It enhances and adds to my worldliness.

Favorite Music:

Modern day classical music, soft and traditional jazz, reggae, Motown Sound, Blues, R&B Neo Soul soft jazz

Dress Style:

Layed back relaxed comfortable as long as I'm clean and presentable. I really try NOT to dress TOO masculine. I ALWAYS WANT TO BE RESPECTED AS A BLACK WOMAN. THATS WHAT I AM BEFORE IM ANYTHING ELSE. I'm still that strong and assertive Black woman. I really like French cuffs tailored suites and Italian soft leather shoes on occasion.

Humor:

That's difficult to say for me because I'm always so serious minded remaining 5 moves ahead of my original plan. Some jokes are not to be laughed at and I don't laugh at everything! I am looking for the opportunity of being able to laugh again.

Hobbies & Interests:

Deep Sea Angler Travel, Experience New Foods Different Cultures Avid Music Listener Novice Gourmet Chef and improving. I am a Political Activist for human rights and my future wife is going to have to be my biggest fan.

Travelled:

I have seen parts of the Caribbean, the US Virgin Islands, Some parts of Europe-Southern Italy, Southern France, Germany Amsterdam. My next adventure this year will be the Fiji Islands and/or Jamaica. I understand they've got some really beautiful MELANATED women there and excellent food. It's not phyy apparent but I love to eat some foods although I'm rather picky at times.

Cultural Adaption:

I'd welcome it wholeheartedly. We'd grow together.

Romance:

I'd prepare a meal for especially her while she watched a movie or listened to music. We'd share true Intimacies by just talking and getting to know one another This is very important to me.

Personality:

Laid back serious romantic homebody. My first priorities will be my wife and my home. Nothing else matters to me. I'm a novice gourmet cook. My body is always kept clean and ready for my wife st all times. My home is kept clean. I'm an excellent provider. I do not practice any form of abuse ever. I don't argue and I most definitely don't fight! I love to travel, museums, live concerts, romantic picnics and I will love pleasing my wife in everyway.

My Perfect Match is:

She wouldn't have to be beautiful outside as much as her inner being. Of course she'd have those little attributes about her that would make me smile. The lovemaker would be earth shaking between her and I. SHE MOST DEFINETLY WOULD HAVE TO BE WOKE SHE'LL KNOW WHAT I'M REFERRING TO We'd have to compliment each other. There would have to be ways we'd enhance one another. She'd have to be LOYAL TRUTHFUL RESPECTFUL KIND POLITE SUPPORTIVE MY BIGGEST FAN POSSESS THE SAME LOVE AND PASSION SHARE THE SAME BELIEFS DESIRE THE SAME THINGS OUT OF LIFE I NEED TO KNOW IN MY HEART OF HEARTS WHEN I LAY WITH HER THAT SHE HAS MY BACK NO MATTER WHAT AND KNOW THAT I HAVE HER BACK IN THE SAME WAY. I BELIEVE AT THIS POINT WITH A STRONG FOUNDATION WE CAN FALL IN LOVE AND SHE CAN KNOW THAT THERE IS NOTHING THAT I WOULDNT DO FOR HER AND THERE IS NO PERSON PLACE OR THING THAT COULD EVER KEEP ME AWAY FROM HER FOR ALL ETERNITY. WE WOULD BE SOUL MATES AND I WOULD CONQUER THE WORLD ALL FOR HER. FINALLY, NOBODY ELSE WILL EVER DO!!

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